Why You Tell Me Things You Don't Tell Anyone Else

Dreamgirl Diaries

It's funny how quickly some men open up.

Sometimes it happens within minutes.

You'll tell me something you've never told your wife.

Something you've never told your best friend.

Something you've never admitted out loud before.

And then, almost immediately, you'll explain it.

You'll defend it.

You'll tell me why it doesn't mean what I think it means.

The funny part?

I wasn't judging you in the first place.

Over the years, I've noticed that many men spend a lot of time worrying about what other people think.

Especially when it comes to the parts of themselves they keep hidden.

The fantasy.

The desire.

The question they've been carrying around for years.

Sometimes I think the secret isn't the fantasy at all.

The secret is how badly you want someone to hear it without turning it into a character flaw.

That's why these conversations happen.

Because for a little while, you don't have to be the husband.

The boss.

The provider.

The guy who always has the answers.

You can simply be yourself.

And honestly?

That seems to be a lot rarer than people realize.

Your Dreamgirl®